THAT SPECIAL OCCASION IS NOW

To All my reader out there... [I found this valuable/interesting piece when im browsing to venusbuzz.com and I would really love to share this with you.]

A soft reminder for us...
"Not to hesitate and keep things on waiting", we might never know what lies beyond us tomorrow... we might never wake up for tomorrow, we never know ... we never knows...

A reminder to seize and savour the day!

My friend sent me a very touching email this morning, and it is one that I have to share! Here’s how it goes:


A friend of mine opened his wife's underwear drawer and picked up a silk paper wrapped package. “This,” he said, “isn't any ordinary package.” He unwrapped the box and stared at both the silk paper and the box.

“She got this the first time we went to New York, 8 or 9 years ago. She has never put it on, and was saving it for a special occasion. Well, I guess this is it.”

He got near the bed and placed the gift box next to the other clothing he was taking to the funeral house, his wife had just died.

He turned to me and said, “Never save something for a special occasion. Every day in your life is a special occasion.” I still think those words changed my life.

Now I read more and clean less.
I sit on the porch without worrying about anything.
I spend more time with my family, and less at work.
I understood that life should be a source of experience to be lived up to, not survived through.
I no longer keep anything.
I use crystal glasses every day...
I'll wear new clothes to go to the supermarket, if I feel like it.
I don't save my special perfume for special occasions. I use it whenever I want to.
The words “Someday” and “One day” are fading away from my dictionary.

If it's worth seeing, listening or doing, I want to see, listen or do it now.
I don't know what my friend's wife would have done if she knew she wouldn't be there the next morning, this nobody can tell.

I think she might have called her relatives and closest friends.
She might call old friends to make peace over past quarrels.
I'd like to think she would go out for Chinese, her favourite food.
It's these small things that I would regret not doing, if I knew my time had come...

Each day, each hour, each minute, is special. Live for today, for tomorrow is promised to no one. Remember that “One day” is far away... or might never come...

The original author of this email is unknown, but whoever he or she is, I must thank him or her for sharing this story! It’s very inspiring.

Heart

Broken Hearts are never healed...
They haunt us for a life time even
if we find someone else...
Our past teaches us lessons that
make us more aware and more human.
Why then do we feel so hurt knowing
it can only get better???

~Karma~

Life is funnie' sometimes...
So many funnie'2x things happened and the funnier part is...
I know 'someone' is still visiting this blog now and then.
I dont make this blog private cause that's what a blog is about...
Unless there are some psycho out there trying to get as much info about me... emmm
But oh well, that's life! why make urself so unsecured and un-confident at all?
Trying to cut me out from someone's life is impossible... dont buy love blindly my dear! Remember, whatever u did before it will always goes back to u soon or later~ karma~

BTW,just to let u know, I still Hate u!

About 'IT'

I don't know why every time if I listens about 'IT' or see about 'IT' or came across about 'IT'... i really cannot TAHAN! I really wanted to kill 'IT' or make it disappear!

God...Please Forgive Me...for having this devilish thought about 'IT'... I just couldn't forgive 'IT' yet! Amen.

Its about Time...

I really had this argument inside myself for awhile now...
and now I really think its about time...and i think its a good time to do it!
Just Do It...

*cross fingers*

(r u ready Bun??)

RIP fb ~ no more~

Goodbye FB~ Officially my Office 'Ban' Facebook from corrupting their employee's mind and performance (what a description~lol)

Sooo... no more lazying in the office browsing what my friends gossiping about and no more harvesting or planting or plowing in the office or cooking during office hours... lol ~ so sad so sad~

I guess RIP FB is a Karma~ lol (guling-guling)

p/s: My Prenzz... if i didnt reply to any threads or messages ASAP...NOW U know WHY!

"Thanks Stephen for the lovely Photo"

Trust ....

Found this story from Daphne Iking's Blog and decided to blog it:


"Little girl and her father were crossing a bridge.

The father was kind of scared so he asked his little daughter,
'Sweetheart, please hold my hand so that you don't fall into the river.'

The little girl said, 'No, Dad. You hold my hand.'

'What's the difference?' Asked the puzzled father.

'There's a big difference', replied the little girl. 'If I hold your hand and something happens to me, chances are that I may let your hand go. But if you hold my hand, I know for sure that no matter what happens, you will never let my hand go.'

In any relationship, the essence of trust is not in it's bind, but in it's bond.

"So hold the hand of the person who loves you rather than expecting them to hold yours..."

God doesn't give you the people you want, He gives you the people you NEED. To help you, to hurt you, to leave you, to love you and to make you into the person you were meant to be."
Thanks~~

(ivy Notepad) :- No matter what people said to you, bad or good, nice or shitty,happy or sad,dumb or clever,lies or proud,ego or bullshit... please remember ~Be Humble and respect~