9 WORDS WOMEN USE

This email came to me long time ago from a friend... and I came across it again today, and I wanted to share it with you for our remembrance and get a laugh with it...

The powerful words that Women Love to use, and What we really mean is… (our hidden meaning):

1. Fine: This is the word women use to end an argument when they are right and you need to shut up.

2. Five minutes: If she is getting dressed, this means a half an hour. Five minutes is only five minutes if you have just been given five more minutes to watch the game before helping around the house.

3. Nothing: This is the calm before the storm. This means something, and you should be on your toes. Arguments that begin with nothing usually end in fine.

4. Go ahead: This is a dare, not permission. Don't Do It!

5. Loud sigh: This is actually a word, but is a non-verbal statement often misunderstood by men. A loud sigh means she thinks you are an idiot and wonders why she is wasting her time standing here and arguing with you about nothing. (Refer back to #3 for the meaning of nothing.)

6. That’s okay: This is one of the most dangerous statements a women can make to a man. That's okay means she wants to think long and hard before deciding how and when you will pay for your mistake.

7. Thanks: A woman is thanking you, do not question, or faint. Just say you're welcome. (I want to add in a clause here - This is true, unless she says ‘Thanks a lot - that is PURE sarcasm and she is not thanking you at all. DO NOT say ‘you’re welcome’, that will bring on a ‘whatever’).

8. Whatever: Is a woman’s way of saying F--- YOU!

9. Don't worry about it, I got it: Another dangerous statement, meaning this is something that a woman has told a man to do several times, but is now doing it herself. This will later result in a man asking “What's wrong?” For the woman’s response refer to # 3.

Now that we’re clear on what stuff means, do feel free to share this with all the men you know, to warn them about arguments they can avoid (if they remember the terminology). Also, don’t forget to share this with all the women you know – to give them a good laugh!

Cheers have fun!

Heart

Broken Hearts are never healed...
They haunt us for a life time even
if we find someone else...
Our past teaches us lessons that
make us more aware and more human.
Why then do we feel so hurt knowing
it can only get better???

Trust ....

Found this story from Daphne Iking's Blog and decided to blog it:


"Little girl and her father were crossing a bridge.

The father was kind of scared so he asked his little daughter,
'Sweetheart, please hold my hand so that you don't fall into the river.'

The little girl said, 'No, Dad. You hold my hand.'

'What's the difference?' Asked the puzzled father.

'There's a big difference', replied the little girl. 'If I hold your hand and something happens to me, chances are that I may let your hand go. But if you hold my hand, I know for sure that no matter what happens, you will never let my hand go.'

In any relationship, the essence of trust is not in it's bind, but in it's bond.

"So hold the hand of the person who loves you rather than expecting them to hold yours..."

God doesn't give you the people you want, He gives you the people you NEED. To help you, to hurt you, to leave you, to love you and to make you into the person you were meant to be."
Thanks~~

(ivy Notepad) :- No matter what people said to you, bad or good, nice or shitty,happy or sad,dumb or clever,lies or proud,ego or bullshit... please remember ~Be Humble and respect~

Let Your Heart Decide

Let Your Heart Decide Lyrics
Artist(Band):Celine Dion

I understand that you’ve met someone
With a perfect heart
But you’ve been questioned by everyone;
Are you’re in the dark?
Can you choose to fall,
Should you risk it all?

How’m I gonna stop it if you wanna give it all to love
When I’m on your side
And I understand you’re the only one to know
Whether wrong or right
Let your heart decide (you’re the only one)

Some may tell you don’t take the risk
It’s a waste of time
But if you think you’ll find happiness
Baby take the dive

It’s unusual
But it’s critical

How’m I gonna stop it if you wanna give it all to love
When I’m on your side
And I understand you’re the only one to know
Whether wrong or right
Let your heart decide (you’re the only one)

Give it up
How’m I gonna stop it if you wanna give it all to love
When I’m on your side
And I understand you’re the only one to know
Whether wrong or right
Let your heart decide (you’re the only one)

Someone You Used to Know Song Lyrics

Someone You Used to Know
Copyright 2008

It was helpless anyway
There's nothing much we could do or say
Darling don't you think it's a shame?
that it had to end this way

So here's to say goodbye,
our love is lost, and we cant figure why
maybe it really is about time
that we finally made up our minds

So Darling, here's to you
i hope that when you find someone new
that she would always be true to you
to love and understand you

Soon you'll build new memories
then slowly you'd forget about me
then i would slowly be
a distant memory

*Soon i'll just be
that someone you used to know
But darling you will thank me
for letting you go
time is not for wasting
i hope you'll find your intended
But i'm sorry
that your intended isn't me

it's not an easy thing
to shake off our history
i know that's what you want from me
but they will always stay with me

i admit i made mistakes
but darling with you it's just the same
if we stay there will be more to make
i dont know how much more we can take

Darling, it would be unfair
to stay with something no longer there
its not that i no longer care
i'd feel like a burden you cannot bear

Thanks Zee Avi for this wonderful song**

Someone You Used to Know...

SAYING GOODBYE IT HARD .....

I always knew that saying goodbye leaves a vacuum in our heart.A pain that hurts so much...u feel helpless where to find the cure. Goodbyes are sometimes temporary yet most of the time its forever.

Letting go is a form of goodbye. Its not because you want it but its because you have to. Its a decision u wish you will never make but still do so others can go on without you. "Its like having the right person at the wrong time or having the right time with the wrong person."

SOMETIMES....i wonder if the one saying goodbye is feeling more pain or the one left behind?....Either way the guilt maybe on the one saying goodbye and the pain is on the one left behind.

BUT love really works on its own reasons.

Sometimes you have to say goodbye because of that love...let it go because you have to. Its not because you love less but because maybe you are loving more.

Maybe you will feel the guilt ,the pain but in the end you know its worth it.
You know sometimes...the trouble with HELLO is.............GOODBYE.

The song "Someone You Used to Know..." by Zee Avi really has a deep meaning for me... Listen and you will understand. Goodbye Love Goodbye Love...Its time for me to leave you as you wish... Sorry it took me long enough to realized it. I hope you will get the satisfaction now.

We are 10 today, Yeaaah!!

Its Friday 14th March 2008

Yup! you are rite, we are turning 10 today....
How it feels turning 10? sigh its hard to describes laa! its just feel great to know that im still with someone which i care for this long! I pray and hope our Love journey will never ends and the Love we have built will become stronger and stronger!

HAPPY ANNIVERSARY MELVIN DEAR!